M. Mead asks that one notes that the mother and the child have a tussle over the washcloth
M. Mead asks that one notices how the mother holds the child with one hand "as if made or rubber"
M. Mead asks that one notices one possibly unique practice that allows a naked child to be in full body control with the naked body of an elderly woman (the grandmother, not the mother)
M. Mead asks that one notices that the mother does have hold the child firmly with her hands but controls it by voice.
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